Respect
Honesty,
and
Belief.
Do you think these are 3 essential elements for a stable love?
Have u ever wondered how they relate to each others?
These days, I’m thinking of that.
When u ‘re honest with your partner, u must have had enough respect for her/him to be able to do that.
Similarly, believing in your partner is also one way to show your respect, no matter how he/she is. As I read the book Everyday-365 daily meditations of Osho, he says that just keep on trusting even if someone’s cheating or lying u. I think this is necessary for love blossoming in our hearts , even if there’s just love from your side. In another way, since u respect your beloved, u have faith in her/him.
Also, because u believe in your partner, u will be easily honest to her/him. He/she creates belief in your heart; thus, u can share with him/her everything, even confessing a secret truth.
Obviously, there’s a sophisticated connection between these three factors.
-Respect to be honest; meanwhile, being honest means u’re respecting your beloved.
-Respect to have confidence in your love; and inversely,
-and, once having trust already, u have honesty.
However,whatever! U need love in your heart to do all of those, eventually.