Respect
Honesty,
and
Belief.
Do you think these are 3 essential elements for a stable love?
Have u ever wondered how they relate to each others?
These days, I’m thinking of that.
When u ‘re honest with your partner, u must have had enough respect for her/him to be able to do that.
Similarly, believing in your partner is also one way to show your respect, no matter how he/she is. As I read the book Everyday-365 daily meditations of Osho, he says that just keep on trusting even if someone’s cheating or lying u. I think this is necessary for love blossoming in our hearts , even if there’s just love from your side. In another way, since u respect your beloved, u have faith in her/him.
Also, because u believe in your partner, u will be easily honest to her/him. He/she creates belief in your heart; thus, u can share with him/her everything, even confessing a secret truth.
Obviously, there’s a sophisticated connection between these three factors.
-Respect to be honest; meanwhile, being honest means u’re respecting your beloved.
-Respect to have confidence in your love; and inversely,
-and, once having trust already, u have honesty.
However,whatever! U need love in your heart to do all of those, eventually.

Favorite love quote

T'is my favorite quote:
Ralationship - of all kinds - are like sand held in ur hand. Hold loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute u close ur hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through ur fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Hold loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it's likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and it lost.


For all kinds of relationship. ^^

If we were Vampires...

This sunny morning, on the walking way to our classes, Oanh told me that if we were vampires...
- We wouldn't be able to stay in this sunshining Cali, we might move to Seattle where it is cloudy, rainy and wet entire year,
- like Edwards, we would have a lot of time to study because we didn't have to sleep,
- We even could "see" the exam questions in advance if we had the supernatural power like Alice, haha.
- We could have a lot of money, just to spend and spend and spend, to enjoy everything in this life =))
- Also, we would be very beautiful.hehe,
and I asked her, "so, what would we do in this life?" she said, "just enjoy,hehe,"
and I thought it might be true.
I thought if we just need to enjoy our lives, perhaps being a Vampire would be fantastic!
But...
just take a look back...
To be good vampires, Cullen family have to make effort to avoid killing people, and it's not easy at all.
This is kinda practice in thirsty suffering, and we can see that even a being which seems to have the most perfect life to enjoy also faces to such great hardship.
That life is always tough is reason for people's sufferance, and...
that life is never as simple as we wish is motive for our exertion to survive.
Ultimately, for we were born as we are meant to be, just take our destiny, and live with it.